Having been raised Catholic, completed nearly 12 years of Catholic school, receiving my ministry training through the Catholic Church and then working for 15 years as a pastoral minister in the Church, I have had a front seat view of all that is magnificent as well as malevolent within Catholicism. The final conclusion I have drawn is that for the past 2000 years, immediately after the apostles discarded Jesus’ embrace of the feminine in favor of the patriarchal and hierarchical status quo, the Church has needed to be reformed.
I used to believe this reform could come from within. I have since learned otherwise. I also used to believe that perhaps the answer was a whole new church altogether – as was the result of the Protestant Reformation, and more recently in Evangelical Christianity and even closer to home, in the off-shoot Catholic denominations. While a more traditional form of “Church” might work for some, I have increasingly come to understand that as we grow toward union, anything that separates – religion, denomination, even atheism, will not serve. Instead, the awakened world is looking for a way to connect that is accepting of all beliefs, and embraces the Truth that is inherent within every single belief system – even those which has grown past the idea of “the old man in the sky god.”
Enter Authentic Freedom…here we provide everything that Church was originally intended to do, only without doctrine, dogma or any form of prosthelytizing:
Authentic Freedom (dot) Love is a community of women and men who are responding to the calling of their Soul to discover their own unique giftedness and how they are called to find fulfillment in these gifts while being supported and empowered in the use of these gifts in service to the betterment of the world.
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Authentic Freedom has come about because we long for a more loving, more compassionate, more tolerant, more accepting and gentler world where the needs of all are met for the common good and where all of humankind can once again live in harmony, peace and understanding.
If you have found yourself here, you are either just beginning to hear the rumblings of your Soul, or have already come to know that you are among those who are being hospice to the dying world while midwifing the new world that is coming into form and are looking for people of like-mind with whom you can share this challenging and exciting calling!
We are changemakers, wayshowers, sh.t-disturbers, mystics and rebels. And here we are safe to question, explore, discover, be empowered and supported for our own unique giftedness and for how we are called to exercise these gifts in our world.
Have you always felt “different,” like you didn’t quite fit in, but have always known, on a very deep level, that you are here for a special purpose and that perhaps the time for that purpose is drawing near? If so……this one is for you. Your time is now. The world needs you to wake up, to share your gifts and to start creating our world anew! Wake up! Wake up! We need you and your amazing, magical, miraculous gifts! And, we need you to find each other, to come together in communities to heal our world and to turn our world from fear to love. This is the purpose you have been waiting for and the time is now!
We Are Living in an Important Time
I believe that we are currently living in a critically important time in the history of humankind and our beloved planet, Earth. We are at a crossroads. Depending on which path we choose, we are either headed for our demise, or the manifestation of heaven on earth. My hope and belief is that our choice will lead us toward the latter, but in order to get there, we have to wake up, we have to help others wake up, and we have to do so QUICKLY!
The Different Ones
As I have mentioned before, I believe that EACH OF US has a unique, important and critical contribution to make toward the betterment of our world and that in discovering and sharing these gifts, we find joy, peace, love and fulfillment. I have also learned that there is a unique group of humans, who have a unique set of gifts and will have a very unique contribution to make toward the manifestation of heaven on earth. These are the men, women and children who have been sent here to wake us up and to show us our way home, ushering us into a place where we will once again dwell in peace on a planet ruled by love. For lack of any better word, and only for the sake of making a point, I am calling these people “The Different Ones.” And I will bet my life that you already know who you are. But, if you need some help remembering, or an affirmation of your differentness and specialness, here are some of the unique characteristics and experiences held by “The Different Ones.”
You have always known, in a very deep knowing, that you were different, perhaps even special.
You never felt as if you fit in with the regular world or society. Perhaps you even felt like a stranger in your own home, wondering who these people were and what God did with your real family. You definitely felt like a stranger in the traditional institutions – school, church, work, etc.
As a child, you found yourself drawn to the mystical, magical, the world of fairies, angels, fantasy, miracles, etc. Perhaps you believed in magic and knew, in some deep level of your being that you could do magic or at the very least, facilitate or participate in the making of something miraculous.
As a young child, and maybe again near puberty, you had experiences, communications, etc. with “other realms.” Perhaps you saw or spoke with “angels,” God, saints, the deceased. Maybe you could see dead people. You knew these other places/beings were real – but when you shared these experiences with others, they were discounted as the workings of an overactive imagination.
You were very sensitive as a child and most likely still are as an adult. You could “feel” the energy of a room, you could “feel” other people’s energies, perhaps even their thoughts. You found yourself repelled by some people and situations based on no other information than “a feeling” and in contrast, found yourself inexplicably drawn to some people and places, because of a “feeling.”
You may have been sickly as a child – sensitive to the environment, ultra-sensitive to human-made chemicals, fabrics, etc. You found yourself sensitive to light, sound, chaotic spaces, technology, etc. It seemed anything that was not purely organic, nature-made, somehow made you ill or if nothing else, made you feel “icky.”
You had/have a strange way of being able to “read” people. Specifically, you could detect truth vs. deceit and found you had no tolerance for the latter. This often caused problems in relationships as people discovered your ability and grew uncomfortable under your gaze (even if this happened subconsciously….as it usually does.)
You have a keen sense of knowing that you are here for a special purpose and feel driven to pursue this purpose – often not even knowing what this purpose is, no matter how irrational this drive may appear to the “real” world.
You have always possessed a different way of viewing and experiencing the world. You believe in the goodness of the world, in justice, in the right of all to be loved and cared for. You have a deep drive to pursue the course of peace and justice and you will defend the rights of those who have none.
You may have a profound affinity with nature and the night sky. You feel drawn to the earth and to the stars and find comfort there.
You are known by a “look” in your eyes and you know others like you through that same “look.” There have been people in your life with whom you felt an immediate connection along with a deep knowing that this is someone like you, someone from your true “family” and someone you can trust and love without condition. These are people with whom you have an immediate and enduring affinity.
And here’s my favorite one “you seem to be born with a different set of rules, values and laws to abide by. Actions that were perfectly acceptable for everyone else are harmful to you, while you are able to do things that are not permitted most of humanity. (Solara, 2012)”
No Mistaking it, You Are Different
There are a million terms which have been tossed around to categorize those who feel “different” – Indigo children, Crystal children, Rainbow children, Slackers, Starseeds, Wayshowers, Lightworkers, Healers, Star Borne, Star Children, etc. etc. etc. Ultimately, names mean nothing, but what is important is that YOU KNOW that you have been sent here for a special purpose and that this purpose is to help usher in THE NEW WORLD. Your ways are different because the world needs to be different. Your ways are more sensitive, more loving, more justice-oriented, because the world needs to evolve toward this or it will destroy itself. AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE! In fact, there are millions like you waiting to wake up, waiting to connect and waiting to GET TO WORK.
I’ll Tell You a Little Secret
I’m sharing this with you, because all of the above characteristics are true of me and I have found a whole slew of men and women who also possess these gifts. I have also found that the unique gifts I have been given are:
1) To wake people up. (I can’t help it, it just happens)
2) To help you overcome the inner obstacles to being and living your purpose.
3) To empower you to connect with others like you and to work together toward bringing forth our gifts for the betterment of the world.
So….toward the goal of item #3, please feel free to connect with other ones like you through the Authentic Freedom Facebook Page. Start a conversation. Make some connections. And let’s get to work making the world a more loving, peaceful and harmonious place!
Today’s blog is for EVERYONE. The world is changing, the universe is changing, the sun’s poles are flipping, and in the midst of all this change, we get to decide…….old world or new world? The choice is up to us. Today’s blog explores the consequence(s) of staying in the old world and the Why and How we might choose the new world instead.
The old world is the world that the human species has been living in for the past 5000 or so years. It is a world rooted in patriarchy which elevates the masculine principle while demonizing the feminine. It is a hierarchical world in which decisions are made from the top down by those in power, and usually in not very loving ways. The old world is one that manipulates through fear and intimidation. Power, control and wealth are TAKEN by the few while the rest suffer in silence, made mute by their feelings of powerlessness. The old world is one in which the seven deadly compulsions reign – gluttony, lust (power-over), wrath, envy, greed, sloth and pride and where “success” comes through ceaseless striving, manipulation and force. Unless you exist within the (less than) 1%, the old world feels constricting, painful, fearful, limiting, and your life is therefore defined by feelings of anxiety, depression, frustration, impatience and longing.
The new world, on the other hand, is the complete opposite of what we have known for the past 5000+ years. The new world is rooted in love, known by peace and lived out in harmonious cooperation. The new world is neither patriarchal nor matriarchal, but is instead rooted in egalitarianism – where masculine and feminine (and everything in between) are valued as unique and equal. Decisions are made through collaboration and arrived at through consensus and are made to meet the higher good of the all. In the new world, each and every person is valued as uniquely creative expressions of the Divine and are honored for their own unique giftedness and empowered to contribute their part in the betterment of the world. In the new world, all that we have used to separate will fall away and all will be honored as sacred and unique.
Continuing to Choose the Old World
Because we have been gifted with the power of freewill, we may continue to choose the old world. We can continue to choose anxiety, constriction, longing, impatience, frustration and for many….failure. For some, this will indeed be their path. For those who were placed on this planet to envision and help support the creation of the new world however, continuing to choose the old world will only lead to their demise. If you have been gifted with a vision of the new world and feel called to help make it happen (lightworkers, wayshowers, starseeds, indigo children, crystal children, rainbow children, galactic federation of light, ascension, kundalini), the Universe will conspire in your favor to make this happen. If you have been gifted with the vision of a new world – and feel called to help make it real and if you are facing your own demise or coming against one obstacle after another after another, your relationships are a sea of conflict, or you are seeing the world you have tried to create crumbling in your hands, there is a reason for this. The harder things get for you, be assured that the more the Universe is trying to wake you up to your vision and your call. As such, if the world you are living in is filled with conflict, struggle and catastrophe, you might want to reexamine your choices. Perhaps you have been unwittingly choosing the old world instead of the new.
Choosing the Old or Living in the New?
The hardest thing in the world is choosing the NEW world because all we have known and been taught is how to choose the old. Old habits die hard. Choosing the old world or living in the new are distinguished from each other in a number of ways.
The old world is:
ruled by the ego
where decisions are made in fear
known by a constant inner state of anxiety
characterized by striving and pushing to “make things happen”
known by the quest for power and control
where people feel limited, constricted, ignored, insignificant, unsatisfied
defined by separation – gender, orientation, nationality, ethnicity, sexual orientation, religion, race, etc.
rife with conflict, struggle, suffering, discord, etc.
the new world is:
ruled by the Divine within
known where decisions are not made but arise naturally out of our connection with the Divine
where life is allowed to happen and to unfold in a gentle, effortless way
known in generous sharing and equal participation
where people experience a life that is fulfilling, rewarding, sustaining, abundant, life-giving, joyful, peaceful and loving
defined by oneness
Living in the new world is made possible when we commit ourselves to the following:
A disciplined spiritual practice (which I define rather widely) through which we take time aside to be quiet, listen for and be open to hearing and believing the voice of the Divine within us.
Disciplined attention to and healing of one’s own fears, compulsions, projections, etc.
Management of our shadow. When we confront our own demons, we stop projecting them on to others.
Exploration of our own unique giftedness, followed by the cultivation and generous sharing of these gifts in an environment where are gifts are readily and enthusiastically received and where we experience the abundant fruits of our labors.
In a nutshell – disciplined attention to our own journey of spiritual, emotional, mental and physical growth.
And finally…..LOVE. Loving ourselves first so that we may then reflect love to others, igniting in them the spark of wanting to remember the love that they are and setting them on the journey as outlined above.
Choosing the New World
Choosing the new world is not an easy task, primarily because in choosing love we have to overcome 5000+ years of conditioning, not to mention our own fears and inner resistance. However, if we have been gifted with a vision of the new world, along with the call to make it happen, we don’t really have a choice – unless, however, we want to continue to live in misery. Please note, that this is true not only for individuals, but also for institutions which have also been gifted with this vision and this call. The call is the same – “Wake up, Wake up” It is time to awaken to your call and time to bring forth the new world.
A message on the strange times we are in and on the hope of birthing a new world. I dedicate this to my children and the other young people who will ultimately bear the consequences of this current transition.
These are strange times with all the conflicts going on in our world, most obviously the failure of the US government to do its job, thereby forcing a shutdown. In addition to these outward signs, people have been sharing with me, personal feelings and experiences of disproportionate anxiety, depression, restlessness, impatience, anger, rage and the feeling as if their world is in a complete state of chaos and overwhelm. I heard it described as if we are riding a rollercoaster of unexpected and unpleasant (for many) happenings. The people who might call themselves sensitives, or just plain “spiritual” seem to be feeling all of this even more acutely. As spiritual people, we are compelled to wonder, “What does this all mean, what is the purpose in all of this and what can we learn?”
In a nutshell, what we are experiencing is the death throes of the hierarchical and patriarchal cultural and sociological paradigm in which we have been imprisoned for the past 5 – 10, 0000 years. If any of you have ever witnessed a death, you know what that looks like – extreme anxiety, depression, restlessness, bursts of anger and impatience, physical, emotional, mental and even spiritual discomfort. This is ultimately what we are experiencing both on an individual and collective level. Hierarchy and Patriarchy, and every structure built upon these models of leadership are coming to an end. And, those invested in these kinds of power structures are desperately clinging to the life they have known and are resisting the release of what has, up until now, given them the false sense of power and control. As the shields, which have carefully guarded government and corporate structures founded on corruption and greed, are falling away, the American people (and the world) is saying, “ENOUGH!” Our job, in the midst of this, is to let the old order self-destruct (which it is doing at a rapidly increasing rate) and be ready to step in to re-create a world that is based in something more life giving.
How to Manage the Dismantling
As I see it, there are two levels to this dismantling: 1) One that is personal and 2) one that is collective. Here is how we can support this dismantling, both within ourselves and within the world around us.
1) Personally: For each of us personally, the dismantling is about undoing the parts within us that are ruled and manipulated by fear. It is about identifying the parts of ourselves which are feeling anxious, depressed, restless, angry, sorrowful and which might even be experiencing these sensations physically. In short, our fearful/egoic self is dying, right along with the fearful/egoic parts of our culture. A portion of this personal dismantling also includes a life-review of sorts. All those unhealed wounds within us or things we have suppressed or ignored seem to be finding their way to the surface in order that they may be named, healed and released. The simple formula for participating in this dismantling is to imagine your fearful/egoic self as a separate individual. Visualize this part of you and HOLD IT in love and compassion. Thank it for enduring the suffering of the human condition and project thoughts of healing and release to all it has carried for you so that it may ascend to a place of peace.
2) Collectively: For the world, the dismantling is the same – allowing the fearful/egoic parts of our human community to die. And, the practice is the same. HOLD the world in love. THANK it for bearing the suffering it has born for the sake of our fear. Project thoughts of healing and release to the broken, fearful, hurting and wounded parts of our world so that they too might ascend to a peaceful place.
This part of my message is specific to those who have identified themselves as healers, lightworkers, lightwarriors, Indigos, Crystals, peacemakers, lovers, etc. Whatever name you call yourself, you have been aware of a special call within you to be a vessel of love and healing in this world. You have a special job. Because of the gifts you have been given, you are especially skilled in transforming fear into love, ignorance into wisdom, confusion into insight, hatred into compassion. You all have your own unique way of bringing love into the world, you are now called to step forward and do what you know you have been called to do. Additionally, I have heard many rumblings about the healers coming together. I’m not sure, exactly, what that means, but let that invitation ring in your heart and guide you toward what that might mean for you.
Way showers and Pioneers Get Ready
And, now is the time for the way showers and pioneers, the millenials, post-moderns, Gen-X’ers and Gen-y’ers to GET READY! As the outgoing power-hungry hoards have accused you of being “slackers,” (which we all know has never been true!) this is YOUR TIME to shine!!! You were born with the knowledge of what the new world needs to look like, and you were born with the vision, gifts and passions to make that happen. Of course, the old regime first needs to fall away. But GET READY….because the new world is YOUR world and will be crafted by your hands, your vision, your wisdom and most importantly, your compassion. You are the most loving and compassionate generation yet to be born on this planet and as the old world falls, you will be the ones bringing the new world to life! Get ready….your time is very, very near.
A Vision of the New World
Of course, no one can predict exactly what the new world will look like, especially since it will be the generations behind me (at 48) who will grow the roots of the new world. For my generation, we are merely the seed planters and the bridge. My sense is that the new world will look nothing like what we have previously known. The new world, will not be ruled by fear or power over, but by love and cooperative collaboration. Perceived separations will fall away and we will come to see how we are ONE, while honoring what is unique and special among us. We will learn to be STEWARDS of our planet, not rapists. We will honor the planet for the gifts it gives us and we will treat her with gentleness and kindness. We will learn to grow crops organically and without harmful and deadly chemicals, and we will see that there is enough to feed every mouth on this planet when we emphasize the growth of living foods. In a spirit of unity, we will ensure that every person is fed, housed, clothed, kept safe, provided with adequate medical care and a quality education. We will honor cultural differences, while finding the love between us. The world will be governed by peace, harmony, love and compassion. We will learn that when we come together in love, there is enough, all of our needs are met in abundance, we will find our own unique gifts and discover meaning and purpose in sharing these gifts for the on-going betterment of the world, we will find support for who we are, we will know love, the value of honoring our own truth as well as the truth of others, we will find direction in wisdom instead of fear and we will discover that we are never alone. Too big of an order? I don’t think so. In short, we will discover the kingdom of God among us and we will walk in peace.
My prayers and blessings to you as we witness the death of what has been, in anticipation of the birth of love.