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Latte’ Love and other Ways to Nurture the Soul

Deprivation as Health?

In Tuesday’s blog, I explored the connection between the way we nourish our body and the ability of the Soul to awaken and be realized through us.  In this culture of EXCESS, nourishing our body and awakening our Soul is unfortunately, most often experienced as a form of punishment.  I believe that this is due in part to the extreme departure from wellness we have taken as a culture.  As such, in order to be “healthy,” we have to deprive ourselves of all the things that give us joy. As a result, we see many embracing militaristic diets which might be nourishing, but are in no way joyful.  In my experience, this militant approach to nutrition is just as detrimental to our spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical health as the gluttonous production and consumption of highly processed, lifeless food, and usually ends up backfiring as the participant grows tired of deprivation and then begins to gorge on all the things that used to give them comfort.  (Just think of Miss “O” and her yoyo journey of weight loss and weight gain.)

Moderation is Key

When we make healthy and living foods our priority, we soon realize the benefits thereof and are less likely to backslide. We feel better physically, we have more energy, our emotions move into a greater state of equilibrium and our blood sugar is balanced which makes us less likely to gorge.  The goal with preparing and nourishing ourselves with healthy and living food meals is to keep them simple, pleasing to the eye and pleasurable to the palate.  Nourishment should be enjoyable, not just a matter of necessity.  There is nothing worse than munching on rice cakes because they are “healthy” and wishing it were a chocolate shake and then wondering, “where was the pleasure in that!?” So instead of depriving ourselves of the things we love, it is important while maintaining a diet that nourishes the body while supporting the awakening of our Soul, to allow ourselves an indulgence from time to time.

Latte’ Love

If you want that piece of apple pie, enjoy it (while paying attention to how your body feels after eating it.).  If Chocolate is your go-to treat, keep a few Hershey Kisses nearby and allow yourself a few from time to time.  And by all means, if there is nothing better than a latte’ for making you feel loved and cared for, then allow for that latte’ love! The key to obtaining a natural state of health and wellness is MODERATION and ATTENTION.  Pay attention to how you feel after consuming these “special treats” and then make future decisions based on that.  For example, I have learned I can handle a half-caff latte’ at 10 am, but a full-caff makes me anxious and my brain scattered.  A piece of apple pie puts me in a sugar coma, so I usually choose to skip it.  A small bowl of Breyer’s natural mint-chip ice cream before bed gives me no negative effects, but a glass of red wine causes me to lose sleep.  So, I choose what makes me feel good, energetic, clear-headed and healthy vs. those things which wreck havoc on my emotional, mental or physical well-being. Now it is your turn to choose!  🙂

Latte' Love
Latte’ Love
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Nourish the Body and Awaken the Soul

Nourishing the Body

DSCF3029I have discovered that there is a direct relationship between nourishing our body and the awakening of the Soul.  When we eat healthy, nourishing, living foods, the Soul feels nourished and supported and it has room to move.  When the Soul has room to move, it has room to grow and to be birthed through us. When we fill our bodies full of chemically-laden, over-processed, dead and deadening foods, our Soul gets grumpy and lets us know by either making us physically ill or creating emotional havoc.  The old adage is true, “We are what we eat,” and if we fill our bodies full of garbage, then we feel like garbage.  When we treat the temple of our body as sacred, magnificent and holy and nourish it with magical, life-giving foods, we become magical and full of life.

Every Body is Unique

DSCF3027Now, that being said, I am not one to tout one specific philosophy of eating over another.  Instead, I encourage you to experiment and see what feels right to you.  Start listening to your body and your Soul – they will tell you what they like and what they do not.  For example, recently, I am finding my body leaning toward a alkaline/raw/vegetarian approach, but I have also learned that in the fall and winter, my body prefers some cooked meals, and there are days when my body CRAVES meat – mostly beef or venison, preferably grass-fed and hormone free.  I have also discovered that whole grains are sometimes a necessary complement to my other food choices.  I have also learned that processed grains (ie: White bread, pasta) and refined sugars are not my friends. Neither are spicy, nightshade (tomatoes, potatoes, eggplant), or acidic foods.  The point is – listen to your body and see what is says to you – it doesn’t matter if you choose vegan, vegetarian, raw, ovo-lacto, or carnivorous, as long as it works for YOUR body and that your choices are healthy….and living foods. PS:  You can tell if the food you are eating are living foods by how they make you feel.  For example, Taco Hell’s Cantinabeana Bowl (though promoted as “healthy”) is made of dead food.  And I’m pretty sure what they are serving at McD….(you know who) is Soilent Green!  YUK!

Making Nourishment Fun

wusthofNow, here is the most important part of nourishing your body so as to awaken the Soul – MAKE IT FUN!!!!  And what that means is treat yourself to pretty, fun and good quality food preparation equipment and whatever you do, do not skimp on the single most important cooking tool – A GOOD KITCHEN KNIFE!!!!!!   Believe me, you will thank yourself for investing in a knife (or knives) that cut cleanly, remain sharp and don’t snag on your chopping block!  I swear by Wusthof knives….and Macy’s often has them on sale!   A good knife makes cooking easy and fun and when it is easy and fun, we are more likely to give our energy and attention to it!

Feed your Belly, Feed your Creativity

saccralWhen we take the time to feed our belly through the preparation of healthy, colorful, living foods, not only are we feeding our belly – we are feeding the creativity center in the center of our belly.  The sacral chakra – responsible for creativity, procreation and co-creation, resides in the center of our lower abdomen.  Food preparation is a creative activity.  When we engage in this activity, we are stimulating and supporting our creativity center.  When we stimulate and support our creativity, our Soul is happy and starts to sing and dance which further stimulates our creative leanings.  Each of us has been uniquely and creatively gifted to find fulfillment, love, joy and peace in our lives and this creativity resides in the center of our belly.  Our job is to take care of it so that it can mature, grow and be brought forth into the world.  When we nurture our Soul through preparation and consumption of healthy, living foods, we are providing for its growth and development in the same way we have provided for the growth and development of our children.  Nourish the Body.  Nourish the Soul!

Then…..share your joy with others

DSCF3034Being raised in a family of six, I only know how to cook for 6-10.  As such, I always have leftovers and way more than I could eat before the freshness fades.  So what do I do?  I make one for me and one to share!  There is a certain sense of satisfaction in sharing our fruits with others, and in the process we are helping to nourish another’s body so that their Soul may also awaken.   In the spirit of sharing, check out the new page on my site:  SOUL FOOD for my favorite nourishing and healthy recipes for awakening the Soul!  And feel free to submit your favorite recipes and photos to be included.  Let’s share the food love! 🙂

What are you doing to nourish your body so as to awaken your Soul?