As a prophet, we see too much, hear too much, feel too much and know too much. We see the truth behind the veil and the face you hide behind your mask. We see the truth beyond the illusion. We recognize and see the sign of the times. In our ability to see we are … Read moreThe Prophet’s Curse – Why Caring is Dangerous
The deeper we move into our inner spiritual work, the more we become aware of the subtle temptations of the ego – especially those we would never have thought of as ego-attachments because our cultural conditioning tells us these are good and benevolent traits. For me, this has come more and more fully to light … Read moreWe Can Only Save Ourselves!
Co-dependency has been defined in many ways. At the most basic level, co-dependency is based on the false premise that it is our job to make other people happy and that if we do not, they will no longer love us. After our spiritual awakening and as we move toward self-actualization, we come to recognize … Read moreFive Steps toward Healing Co-Dependency
It is said, “The good Lord helps those who help themselves.” The key here is “help themselves.” The Lord (or whatever name you give to the transcendent aspect of the Divine that is said to be a source of guidance and support) cannot help those who refuse to take responsibility for their own lives, their … Read moreHeal Yourselves! Lessons on Detachment
It is said that “the truth shall set you free.” I have continued to find this to be true. But knowing that in expressing our truth we shall find freedom and actually expressing our truth are two different things, especially when expressing those truths leaves you naked and vulnerable in the face of an often … Read moreMy Secret Pain – the Call of Beloved Partnership
In the twenty-plus years I have been counseling individuals and couples, I have identified the number one reason relationships fail: Looking for the other person to complete us. Co-Dependency In the recovery world, co-dependency is limited to addictive/compulsive patterns of enabling. Here, co-dependency is expanded to include any behaviors, attitudes and relationship dynamics which are rooted … Read moreThe Number One Reason Relationships Fail
Buy it Now! Happily Ever After – the Transformational Journey from “You Complete Me” to Beloved Partnership presents a new model for intimate partnership along with the process for getting there. Happily Ever After recognizes that as long as we are looking outside of ourselves for completion our relationships are doomed to fail – supporting … Read moreHappily Ever After: my latest book available now!
Finding the new life on the other side of the loss. 2016 marks the end of a nine year cycle that began in 2007. For me, the theme of this cycle has been about endings – specifically, the end of my marriage and the end of my relationship with the Catholic Church. Of course, both … Read moreMy Purpose is Love
The greatest fear in the human experience is not death, neither is it public speaking. The greatest fear in the human experience is that we are alone – really, truly, alone; and in this aloneness, life has no meaning and no purpose. This is our greatest fear because it is also our greatest truth. At … Read morePower in Our Aloneness
To all my magnificent single sisters: This one’s for you! The Plight of the Modern Woman in Search for the Modern Man Intelligent, independent, courageous and strong, Beautiful, generous, thoughtful and kind. Laughing with you over the Holy Grail. Speaking your language of Tarantino, fantasy, adventure and sci-fi. Tossing down pints and whiskey shots. Cursing … Read moreThe Plight of the Modern Woman in Search for the Modern Man